As a mentor who mentors, when I load in one of the first things I do is look at other players' gear, especially those I didn't queue with. And let me tell you, sometimes my response is, out loud, "oh my god. Oh my gawwd." OP's gear isn't the worst I've seen. First week of Xelphatol my party had a BLM with the Bismarck weapon. Not the crafted one.
Though I've never initiated a vote kick against someone for pulls taking forever, I have loudly suffered (my poor partner and TS mates) through dungeons that can be cleared in 20 min taking 45-50 min instead.
For Sohr Khai, if the first 5+ min really were that bad, the party could have a reasonable expectation of failing Hraesvelgr at the end. There is a soft enrage. You run out of platforms and you die. I've been in a group where it happened.
Based on how long that first pull took, the others may have decided they'd never make it past enrage. But some attempt should have been made to coach or otherwise discuss this with the underperforming dps before voting to kick.
