Kind of a story/request for advice.
I was doing my daily roulette in Tam Tara Deepcroft when we get a party put together with a tank who didn't seem to be all there. They would start off a fight with a flash and just auto attack from there on out, occasionally having long bouts of doing nothing at all during a fight, causing them to constantly lose aggro to myself and the DPS. By the time we reached the second group of trash mobs we'd already had a DPS leave and picked up a new mage (thaumaturge?). Some of the more experienced players tried giving the tank advice on how to use their abilities and combos but the tank didn't react/respond at all. I started marking targets for the DPS and using them and myself as pseudo tanks and just healing through the damage. We didn't wipe and only had one death (couldn't heal fast enough) on a boss so it could have been worse I suppose.
Now, I'm new to this game, this is only my fifth day playing and while it is a lot of fun this doesn't to seem terribly uncommon in lower end dungeons. I've had this scenario play out three times since and it's worrying, so I ask you:
Does this happen often higher end dungeons and if so, is it still possible to circumvent the tank and just heal through damage and get by with focused DPS on marked targets? Or would we be better served by dropping out and finding a new party?
