So I have a problem, that I don't know how to deal with without hurting someone's feelings -_-... I'm freaking out right now and I honestly have no idea how to gently turn someone down who is of the same gender and I think wants a romantic relationship... I mean, I don't swing that way or anything and I will be completey honest after this I'm going to close out my sub and I'm not going to try this again. What the hell am I supposed to do -_-... I'm literally freaking out bad right now.
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10-18-2017, 03:22 PMxeoneex
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10-18-2017, 03:28 PMRuriThe earlier you tell them the truth the better. Just explain you are straight and looking for the same. The longer you wait the more difficult it will be (Has had similar happen)Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
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10-18-2017, 03:30 PMhellmachI don't think there's a way to reject somebody without hurting their feelings. The best you can do is make the fall "softer" so to speak like most women do when they reject a guy. Just be firm but polite. Don't attack their sexuality but let them know your romantic inclinations aren't they same. Pull yourself together and just do it because this situation is one you gotta nip in the bud real fast before it gets out of control.Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
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10-18-2017, 03:32 PMxeoneexHe has autism and I just feel horrible if he doesn't something drastic or something I don't know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ruri
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10-18-2017, 03:34 PMxeoneex
I feel so embarrassed right now -_-. I don't even know why. I really need to calm down and get to bed :/.
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10-18-2017, 03:35 PMInfernoleo
Server: Siren
Willing to transfer? Maybe. I own a medium house in Shirogane and don't really want to move but for the right person maybe.
Personal Interests: Cooking, Video games, Movies
Play schedule: I'm PST and often from noon till 2am or later
What kind of gamer are you:Mid-core/Hardcore
Character Gender: Female (male irl)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Character wise i don't care but i would ask for a female player.
Main class?: MCH & WAR
Dislikes: toxic players
Goals for the game:Currently working on clearing o4s and building out my house.
Goals for the marriage union Really just want someone fun to hang out with and run content with. would be great if they want to help me work on the house also
Etc: Feel free to pm me ig at Infernoleo true or in discord at infernoleo#6143. I would differently want to get to know you first.
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10-18-2017, 03:51 PMRuriThat's rough but if you wait longer it will just be more painful.Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
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10-18-2017, 04:00 PMLetalisInsaniaplease just stop.Quote:
Originally Posted by PrairieSnowAngel
SE was totally right to ban you. You were really popular on my server for some time, for scamming other players off their time, feelings and in some cases also their money -
I've talked to several of your victims and we got screenshots. Someone also made a video and sent it to SE, havent seen that one.
One time youre a guy in his late 20s looking for a woman. Then youre a young transwoman looking for man or woman. Now youre a woman whos a lesbian looking for another woman. You approach ppl and tell them exactly what they wanna hear so they start to trust you. I know at least of two times where you "begged" the other person to pay for your EB package too because you have no money. (Given the fact how often you do a servertransfer, namechange and fantasia, that might be true cause all your money is spent on that) as soon as the other one equipped the band with your name you just logged off and transfered servers, leaving the other one scammed, payed for two for him/her worthless EB packages.
No idea why you do that. Maybe you are unbelievable bored and enjoy to hurt and scam other people.
Maybe you have no idea yourself who you are, so you try out different identities and the reaction of others to them.
Maybe you dislike yourself so much that you feel no one will ever like you for who you are so you make up everything, then panic and vanish.
Either way, your behaviour is unbelievable, escpecially since you see yourself as the victim here.
But stop playing with peoples feelings, stop wasting their time, and stop scaming them off their money.
Scamming might be also illegal in your country? Better go and ask your parents about it, all your lawers, the pope and your neighbors cat.
and feel free to talk to the police. "Hello, police? Yeah I am a scammer on the internet, now ppl call me out for it, what can you do? Interpol already on it? Thanks a lot"
It would be really laughable, but since you hurt a lot of ppl in the progress, it would be time for some self reflection for you.
Stop playing the victim card, youre only ashaming yourself with that. Get some help, get off the internet, no idea. -
10-18-2017, 04:36 PMRuriHopefully in a polite way explaining what you are looking for in a relationship. And I hope it all ends up good for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
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10-18-2017, 05:50 PMYuto_KatsuragiWoah Dude... if u dont like it, then you should just say it. Being honest will hurt him less then something else. Nobody will hate you for being conservative. i dont know what youre trying to aim for with that Statement tho. A lot of homosexual or transgender People post here, so this Statement just feels like trolling to me? Just put a line in your next Post to tell Everyone that youre not looking for People like us. No need to make such a big Fuss and if you really wouldnt care, you wouldnt have mentioned it. Good Luck with that o/Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
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10-18-2017, 06:29 PMMagic-MalWanted to ask just in case you're still here:Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
So you are with a guy. Guy knows you're a guy too. Guy is gay. Guy becomes romantically interested in you. You don't like LGBT. Meaning you have to turn him down?
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10-18-2017, 06:40 PMIlyrianHave you tried not playing a female character - might be step one in trying to create your hetero-online fantasy? Also tried not being a vocal bigot? Works wonders when trying to find like-minded people for online – whatever it is you get up to.Quote:
Originally Posted by xeoneex
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10-18-2017, 08:48 PMNoip
Guys/Gals, This thread was meant to help people find friends/EB partners. leave the drama outside this post thread please, it makes it harder for people to find other posts.
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10-18-2017, 09:41 PMAmenianSo this. All this drama is making me embarrassed to even have posted here. I just want a gaming buddy, not drama and desperate people.Quote:
Originally Posted by Noip
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10-19-2017, 12:19 AMTyX
Bumping to get back on track:
Server: Excalibur
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: Games, Anime, Movies and wrestling, NFL Football
Play schedule: Unless its my day off...very late (I get off work at 12am est)
What kind of gamer are you: Semi-Casual
Character Gender: Male(IRL too)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Ya, and Female
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: Miqo'te, Au Ra or Hyur preferred, but any race is fine
Main class?: Monk, Samurai being 2nd
Dislikes: Dishonesty, Assholes, Elitist (There's a difference between giving advice and yelling advice)
Goals for the game: Play the game, Have fun, run a cool FC and make friends
Goals for the marriage union: A partner in crime, someone to play the game with, FC Second in Command (Started one, looking for members...) and all around person I can chat with.
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10-19-2017, 12:22 AMMaku
Bump because of the pages upon pages of unrelated posts.
Server: Mateus (NA)
Willing to transfer?: Yes, but would like someone to transfer here.
Personal interests: Scuba diving, gym, physic competitions (watching and competing), gaming.
Play schedule: Weekdays after 8pm CST till I go to sleep, weekends anytime commonly all day.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual that pretends to be hardcore from time to time.
Character gender: Male (IRL too).
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Want a male in game and IRL. It would just be odd to be playing with a male character but hearing a female voice on discord.
Character race: Moon Seeker Miqo'te
Preferred race: Anything but Lala, but a Miqo'te or AuRa would be my preference.
Main class: I don't have one. The current flavor of the month is BLM though.
Dislikes: Flakes, liars, spiders
Goals for the game: Have fun and waste time.
Goals for the marriage union: Best friend in game to do content, level stuff, maybe try and take cute screens, and eventually do the EB ceremony/quest line. No interest in anything RL unless by some miracle you live within 50miles of me.
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10-19-2017, 12:39 AMxeoneexNo it wasn't a troll or anything, I honestly thought he was a girl just before we talked on discord. He made absolutely no effort to mention he was LBGT. I honest to God had no intention of posting this here at all but it caught me so off guard at 1:30 am that when we went on voice chat for the very first time, I was happy and excited to have a woman who was interested in leveling with me etc that I might have found that partner I was seeking. I'm going to remove that post because after sleeping on it and now that I am calm I can think rationally. I have been extremely stressed out lately so my reactions to things of this nature are really difficult for me to deal with when something catches me off guard like that. I meant no drama here I swear it. I can understand how people are feeling by that statement and that's their right and all that. I am going to keep a VERY low profile for awhile and when this blows over, if i'm still around I will continue my ad every so often but I promise you I have no intention of trolling or anything of the sort.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yuto_Katsuragi
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10-19-2017, 01:18 AMLanelle
Server:Cactuar
Willing to transfer?No.
Personal Interests:Playing ff, chatting, music, sci-fi.
Play schedule: Mostly around at night, but sometimes during the day.
What kind of gamer are you:Casual-Midcore
Character Gender:F(Male IRL)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would like a female player.
Character Race:Kitty
Preferred Race:Whatever floats your boat!
Main class?:Nin.
Dislikes:Dishonesty, people who use people, people who aren't who they say they are, fake people.
Goals for the game:Make gil, raid, have fun.
Goals for the marriage union:Whatever we both agree upon!
Etc:Just want to have fun with someone, can just be as friends too! Feel free to message me on discord.
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10-19-2017, 01:20 AMRaeli
Server: Gilgamesh
Willing to transfer? No because the server is closed but I may be willing to make a new character
Personal Interests: Video games, anime, Harry Potter, general "geekdome" also makeup
Play schedule: After 8 PM EST on weekdays and variable on Weekends
What kind of gamer are you: Uhh casual/midcore I did used to enjoy raiding
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really
Character Race: Au ra
Preferred Race: Anything not lalafell sorry :(
Main class?: SCH
Dislikes: Lying
Goals for the game: Someone to play with
Goals for the marriage union: Uhh I don't know honestly
Etc: Discord - Kozakura #2388 I'm female IRL and straight, I guess I probably prefer guys to game with? I just recently started playing again so I boosted to get up to content and trying to learn my class and stuff I really just want fun people to do stuff with maybe raid eventually again Stuff like that -
10-19-2017, 01:25 AMNtol
Sorry for posting twice this week, but as the rest I must resurface due to recent drama. Also, a slight update.
Server: Shiva (EU)
Willing to transfer?: Sure.
Personal interests: Videogames, sci-fi and fantasy novels, comics, Star Wars (Legends).
Play schedule: Everyday (see etc.) from 22:00 or 00:00 up to 2:00 or 3:00.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual, but I´d become a bit more hardcore with the right people / schedule.
Character gender: Male (IRL too).
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: I´d rather play with a male character from a male player, but I could play with females if we get along well.
Character race: Lalafell with a fantasia potion.
Preferred race: Whatever you like.
Main class: White Mage.
Dislikes: Lies.
Goals for the game: Experience all content.
Goals for the marriage union: Have someone to play with and have a good time. Also to experience the eternal bonding if we agree, although always only in-game terms.
Etc: Discord: Ntol#8729. On previous posts I posted I could only play for a few days because I played on PS4, but I just discovered my PC isn´t as potato as I thought it was and it can run FFXIV, although on the bare minimum requirements. Update: Testing succeeded, I can play perfectly on PC, but if you want to be a eternal bond partner better you make the screenshots :( -
10-19-2017, 01:37 AMAmenianHi Raeli,Quote:
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10-19-2017, 01:42 AMAkarymWhite Knight looking for his princess !
FAMFRIT
transfer? Maybe, my Best friend is in famfrit, so the girl need to be awesome !
Personal Interests Wine / book / Roleplay / Learning / any fantasy or scy fy fiction
Schedule EST 8pm to 11pm, sometime more
What kind are you Casual / hardcore at hearth. I like everything in this game.
Character Gender Male (IRL to)
Do you care if not the same gender as their character?
Nope, who care ? ;)
Race Hyur (highlander atm) looking to improve my look
Preferred Race Anything but lalas
Main class Paladin, I'm a tank type
Dislikes Been lied, promise not kept
Goals ingame
Right now : End game tanking
But I enjoy every aspect of FF14
Goals for marriage
Been able to enjoy that aspect of the game.
I want a partner to play. Another friend Someone to help someone to talk to
Etc
I'm looking for someone that want to share gaming time.
discord Akarym #2013
Currently seeing someone !!!
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10-19-2017, 02:06 AMRaeliHey I added you on Discord :) I have a lot of free time so I don't mind releveling stuffQuote:
Originally Posted by Amenian
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10-19-2017, 02:10 AMChaoticCrimson
@Amenian, looks like we're on the same server! If you don't mind talking with someone who's still a bit of a newbie, my discord's crimsonchaos #3589. My work schedule's a little weird, so I might not always respond to messages right away, but I usually play at night after work/dinner/etc. I've been actually looking for a gaming buddy myself lol.
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10-19-2017, 02:42 AMAmenianI'm all for more gaming buddies. I'll add youQuote:
Originally Posted by ChaoticCrimson
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10-19-2017, 03:11 AMPowe
Server: Gilgamesh
willing to transfer: nope
play schedule: Sundays through Wednesdays I'm usually on a good chunk of the day or able to be on, while Thursdays through Saturdays are iffy, because of my work I'm only on like 3 hours in total for a day.
what kind of gamer am I: Causal
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: no I don't, just looking for someone to cool to play with :)
Preferred Race: While Male Roes are preferred I don't care in all honesty.
Main Class: All the spell weavers
Dislikes: Anyone whos very dark as in mean to others or is a Elitist.
Goals for the marriage: Having someone to Climb the tower of hell for me so I can Teleport to them and get those Sight seeing Vistas ;) , All seriousness looking for new people to be friends with and do dungeons.
I'm Also in discord I'm hade33#0372( Lower case not uppercase) though I would appreciate it if you reply to this saying you sent me a friend request before I accept it. -
10-19-2017, 03:37 AMmike_1984
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10-19-2017, 04:26 AMChaoticCrimsonCool, I just accepted your request! I'll be done with work in a few hours, so I can probably message you sometime after then.Quote:
Originally Posted by Amenian
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10-19-2017, 09:16 AMDeavin
Deavin Wrxsti
Server: Malboro
Willing to transfer? No, I have an FC & the best friends.
Personal Interests: Games, Music, Movies, Sports, Cars & Fishing
Play schedule: EST. During the week from 7:30ish for a few hours. Weekends I'm on most of the time
What kind of gamer are you: Midcore
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes, prefer female.
Character Race: Hyur Midlander
Preferred Race: Au Ra, Miqo'te & Hyur. I wouldn't rule out someone of the others races.
Main class?: Ninja
Dislikes: Rude people, dishonesty, the usual..
Goals for the game: Have fun and collect all the things.
Goals for the marriage union: Someone to hang & have fun with, & get the mount & glamour.
Discord is Deavin #2672.
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10-19-2017, 09:37 AMReygoonx
Willing to transfer? Yes
Personal Interests: gaming, cooking, reading, music
Play schedule: tues/Wednesday off rest of the time about 6 hours
What kind of gamer are you: Causal / hard core
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? yes Female
Character Race: Human
Preferred Race: no
Main class?: BLM
Dislikes: nothing really
Goals for the game: beat end-game stuff and get a house
Goals for the marriage union: to find someone i can have fun with and connect with =D
Etc: want to know more about me send me a message in-game or Discord- Rey#1514 -
10-19-2017, 10:02 AMJaleyn
Server: Mateus
Willing to transfer? No, but willing to pay for yours.(Have a house,fc, close friends)
Personal Interests: Creepypasta, walking aimlessly, assorted puns and musics.
Play schedule: Almost everyday always off sunday.
What kind of gamer are you: Omni-crafter/gatherer, Occasional RPer
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not one bit
Character Race: Xaela
Preferred Race: None
Main class?: uh...Weaver?
Dislikes: Nunhs
Goals for the game: Craft craft, gather gather.
Goals for the marriage union: See what happens. Casual friendship/socialization to RP story threads. Discord- Jaleyn#4380
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10-19-2017, 10:12 AMhellmach*sarcasm* I wasn't looking for a pet lizard anyways >:(. Why not make a Lala alt and see how it goes?Quote:
Originally Posted by Raeli
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10-19-2017, 02:24 PMAbsodeth
Server: Cactuar
Willing to transfer? Depends. Make a convincing case and sure ^^.
Personal Interests: College, RP and FFXIV; although to be specific I am attending college with the hopes of becoming a marine biologist. I'm a nerd at heart, pick a show or anime/manga to geek out over and we'll have super fun. I also take interest in the passions of others and love to hear people pour their hearts out.
Play schedule: Flexible. Just feel free to discuss it if you'd like.
What kind of gamer are you: Mostly hardcore.
Character Gender: A guy IG and a guy IRL.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I do prefer a potential suitor to be a male irl and in game. Sorry ladies!
Character Race: Miqo'te, Seeker \[T]/
Preferred Race: Au Ra, Xaela. If there's ANYTHING that makes me weak in the knees it's a tall lean dragon-guy ^////^~! Lalafell [adorableness overload!] do have their charm though, most races do. Don't let my personal preferences stop ya', I got a big heart and can find plenty of details on your character to fawn over or poke fun at. If that was a concern.
Main class?: RDM~
Dislikes: Pettiness, I can deal with a lot of crap yo.
Goals for the game: Fun. That's literally it. Ear scratches are a wonderful bonus though!
Goals for the marriage union: Some one to call up n' goof off with; in desperate need for a cool guy to hang out with! I'm not opposed to online relationships. But that's far from my top priority, if it happens it happens.
Etc:
*Ta'hjin Nunh#2699 [Discord]
*Swearses the Nunh bit was due to a splinter tribe thing. I don't have an alpha male complex. Oof.
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10-19-2017, 04:18 PMAiheartLooking for my Nhaama !
Server: Tonberry
Willing to transfer? no sorry :( but i am willing to restart over together in the new server as long its elemental
Personal Interests: i like many stuff can't list it all together :s
Play schedule: daily
What kind of gamer are you: casual, for someone who is online daily
Character Gender: male, male in real life too.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? prefer female, i need motivation to play along each other
Character Race: Au ra Xeala
Preferred Race: Female Au ra for role
Main class : Dragoon
Dislikes: liars, people with no respect, elitists, overly sensitive people
Goals for the game: to enjoy the game, progress through all jobs.
Goals for the marriage union: i dont really have a marriage goal but i like someone who can stand together with me and having fun of course !
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10-19-2017, 05:06 PMAiheartof the dusk...a maiden gentle and ethereal. A dancer in the morning mist and a warrior besides... Look into my eyes child ! See you Azim ? Are you my Nhaama !?Quote:
Originally Posted by Yoruo
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10-19-2017, 10:14 PMHarrianLooking for Marriage (relationship maybe)
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Server: Odin
Willing to transfer? Not right now, no.
Personal Interests: Video Games, Movies and how they are made.
Play schedule: When im not working. Always night and some days.
What kind of gamer are you: Midcore but enjoy casual more.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yeah, im a guy looking for a guy.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Mainly Miqo'te. Im not fussy otherwise.
Main class?: Red Mage
Dislikes: Rude people. Elitists.
Goals for the game: To do my own thing at my own pace.
Goals for the marriage union: Have someone to hang out with and get close to.
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10-19-2017, 10:43 PMYoruoAs much as I am interested in making an alt on a new server, I know I wouldn't have the time nor energy to play on it much. All of my very limited time go to my main unfortunately. Thus I'm searching for someone who is either willing to transfer to Zodiark or is already there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aiheart
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10-19-2017, 10:49 PMAiheartHow suppose sun live without moon.. Hahaha thank you and good luck for you too, haven't found anyone yet ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Yoruo
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10-19-2017, 10:55 PMYoruoI'm out of luck, been like that for around half a year I think. Zodiark is a rather small server so finding an au ra is already hard enough. But I pet each and every one I can find incase they would pet back x3Quote:
Originally Posted by Aiheart
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10-19-2017, 11:14 PMAiheartHalf year ? Wow we are pretty much same, tonberry is quite big but maybe I have bad luck with them :x plus not many tonberrian here in this forum I guess...Quote:
Originally Posted by Yoruo