i didn't come from Wow and never played any other mmo...
So I maybe I shouldn't even be commenting on this thread.
My feeling is there is too much whimsy, the cactuar mount is obnoxiously large, many things bug me about FFXIV. It's the only the mmo I've ever played, why is that?
From my perspective I've can't find anything out there better. In a way it's a shame not having variety. And serious competition leaves SE to rest more on it's laurels. But I digress.
Even though there are things I don't *personally* care for, its seems to me to be the best thing out there, at least widely available to ppl in NA.
And I never wanted to play Wow, I heard to many horror stories about toxic behavior. FFXIV is not without it toxicity but I just avoided all mmos till someone got me to try FF because of what I heard from the start with Wow. Of course, that's not the same as actually finding out for myself by any means but it was enough to scare me away.