for me, it isn't even the attitudes or skills of people in df that keep me from tanking... For example I have gone into every dungeon and trial in SB that I have done so far, as a dps and completely blind without studying the fights. And I have done mostly ok just by staying out of bad and by my knowledge of past fights and the tells that are used. If I had tanked them though, I would have actually needed to know the fights to tank them. When to swap, where to move/face the mob, etc... I have played, dps, heals, and main tanked for more than a few statics in this game and tanking is by far the most knowledge and skill intensive by a huge margin. It is just too much stress having to be perfect all the time to do it. Why tank when I can just relax and dps or heal?
