Sometimes its a good thing to have "toxicity" and other negative traits

OP you seem to have a real negative opinion of your fellow human beings. I hope that changes one day.

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Originally Posted by SongOfTheWind

The word “toxic” is overused and lost all its meaning. No, it is not ok to be toxic in the actual meaning of the word (please look it up). What you are talking about is called “providing direct and honest feedback”. Btw, it can be done effectively without calling names and being rude in addition to it. Being rude is not effective, it brings anger and reactions which hide actual reasons behind frustration and advice/feedback is more easily forgotten or ignored as a result.

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Yeah but look up positive toxicity and let us know if thats ok too....

Like on some real s**** ppl need to chill and realize we are not here to stroke your make believe validations. Ppl are here to critique and give out ideas yet this forum hisses at the sound of change and of reasons to not like things. For those who dont hoss but give critical ideas and constructive criticism its a breath of fresh air.

Seeing as the devs deleted a forum post its amazing how thin skin humans are now and how much validation ppl need to feel positive about themselves......

This is all too déjà vu... Chloe...? lol

Fun fact: Toxic positivity is one of many reasons why Concord failed.

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Originally Posted by Exmo

OP you seem to have a real negative opinion of your fellow human beings. I hope that changes one day.

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let me ask you this what is "good" in human nature hmm what is an actual useful ability to human life outside just accepting things are the way they, are with no ambition no will no desire to move beyond the life of an insect?

I'm putting myself through extreme science classes and when I get a lab one day I will follow my ambition no matter what laws I have to break to end humanity and replace it with a better race and species

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Originally Posted by Daughterofdeath

let me ask you this what is "good" in human nature hmm what is an actual useful ability to human life outside just accepting things are the way they, are with no ambition no will no desire to move beyond the life of an insect?

I'm putting myself through extreme science classes and when I get a lab one day I will follow my ambition no matter what laws I have to break to end humanity and replace it with a better race and species

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Not really beating the allegations here

Usually when I make suggestions to people it either goes ok or they seem to just ignore it, but I don’t do that on a very regular basis so maybe I’ve been lucky.

You’re right that there’s a time for feedback/advice, and that sometimes there’s people who are sensitive to the point where even good-faith advice is seen as an attack to them. But if this is a problem to you on a regular basis then you may be more rude than you’re intending to be (which is an easy thing to have happen when just communicating over text with strangers).

If people are bad at the game and not listening to advice in Duty Finder content I don’t bother to push them much farther after giving the initial advice, because it doesn’t matter in those encounters if one person on the team doesn’t know how to play the game. But in high end raiding if someone doesn’t know what they’re doing and isn’t capable of taking any feedback then I just have to not play with them. There’s a lot of different people out there and we can’t change those who can’t/won’t cooperate so we might as well just play with those who can cooperate.

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Originally Posted by Daughterofdeath

This leads to a zest pool of ever-growing stupidity

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definitely the quote of all time

bring back embarrassment.

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Originally Posted by Exmo

Not really beating the allegations here

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you assume I care what any human thinks of me, and to answer the question yes Im chloe saunders the vampire princess waiting for her prince, and as for your "allegation idgf unless your a vampire prince, undead werewolf or at the very least a demon boy your view and thoughts of me matters not, more so with the week i been having with my intensive thoughts better share them in a good way like this than what i really want to do which if i did would end up with me in that place.. forever

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Originally Posted by Rein_eon_Osborne

This is all too déjà vu... Chloe...? lol

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its obviousely me i never care to hide who i am because there no reason to I am honest truthfull and ive proven my points multiple times with real life pictures and my address



regardless back to the topic honestly it is annoying to deal with you go in trying to behave and some moron in full mage gear playing warrior standing in every aoe and won't even listen to one word of what to avoid in the area its frustrating both mentally and honestly physically because dealing with them makes me dig my nails into my arm and Honestly im tired of every bit of it both on devs disrespecting darkness and hallows eve and players that just either purposely or just complete failures pushs peoples buttons and then the .... weaponize the "tos" and honestly i feel like some of these people are doing it on purpose tempting and pressuring you to go off on them. ANd i'm sorry ive seen alot of people who flat out obviously do this to people to try to get them to say something then weaponize the tos because the gms are flat-out stupid and don't look at the entire picture only what you say in defense/frustration