Originally Posted by
Murugan
FFXIV servers were pretty diverse on their own, so I wouldn't say there was a singular "XI server experience". Many XI nostalgists obviously chose Selbina because of the name, so there are a lot of proud XI players here.
About your post, people are perfectly social on Selbina. You are level 20, you just started playing that character. What were you expecting exactly? The game has been out for a very long time.
Even still there are tons of social shells on the server looking for people, including new players. The community is very friendly, and helpful. People on Selbina do pick ups for all sorts of content, so whether you want exp/spiritbonding or Ifrit/Moogle whatever current endgame content there is you are going to have plenty of opportunity to do that, with or without an endgame shell.
Level 20 is a little early to judge a server. There isn't that much to do up until that level, but I do see low level groups forming for exp every so often. Maybe you could try that to meet some people.
Though with the rate that exp is gained in this game, most people are not level 20 for very long. The 30's is a little better, but really the 40's is where you are going to start mingling with the bulk of the community and possibly form relationships with people you are likely to play with often (though sometimes you get lucky early on).