If somebody isn't pulling their weight in the party just heal them a lot less to mess with them. I'll sometimes stagger heals for somebody who keeps eating something they can easily evade and I'm not even talking about somebody with lag. If you have lag people can visibly see it so when you BS about lag then we know. Healers can see everything (hopefully i know a few healers who still tunnel vision). So if one guy carries on messing up just take longer and longer to heal him he'll soon start moving if he has any sense. Or he'll be one of those guys who just die all the time then harass you in chat "Rez.....Bro rez me....wtf bro? REZ HEALS....YOU SUCK REZ ME" Memo for those people the longer you whine the longer you are probably going to be left on the floor and the more people in the party will hate you for distracting them with useless chat. We use that chat box to communicate tactics when we don't have voice chat not to cry because you died again.
That said it's for everyone in the party to do their job and if you are not doing that and making life harder for others who need to pick up your slack then you shouldn't be there. It's not fair if one healer is really trying and the other keeps screwing up or for some DPS working hard to do damage while taking as little damage as possible and one DPS just eats every AoE and dies so he can't do damage. Or for one MT to be doing everything and the OT is slacking and so on. It's a team effort it's not others job to carry you so you need to go in with the attitude that every run will be your best ever.
