Divorce...

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Originally Posted by FuraXai

LOL. Just like IRL amiright?

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Yes exactly. If you're marrying for the money its the same situation as this guys facing hehe

I imagine this is part of the reason they have pay options, to make you think about whether you actually want to spend real money on them.

Im not sure how they can really harrass you. They have a ring on a 30 minute cooldown that lets them teleport to you, that's not that much worse than someone just /searching you and teleporting to the zone you are in.

There's supposed to be an npc to annul the wedding anyway, not as simple as throw away the ring. Not sure who or where it is, but go talk to the npc's around the chapel and see if there's a way to properly divorce yourself.

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Originally Posted by Noblewar

they shouldnt change it, maybe it'll open some eyes so people think twice before getting married in real life!

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Yes its SE's way of showing us how it will really be like if you get married and have to go through a divorce! FFXIV Marriage Sim okgo

You reap what you sow, dear friend. Hope you have learned a lesson and let your story opens the eyes of those who wish to marry just because of the item and don't give a second thought of to whom they will marry.

But guys they were in love.

I don't get it.....how are they affecting you in anyway? What does being married in the game actually do besides allow you to teleport to that person with the ring? I thought it was all for show

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Originally Posted by Lori

I don't get it.....how are they affecting you in anyway? What does being married in the game actually do besides allow you to teleport to that person with the ring? I thought it was all for show

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which is the issue he's pointing out. if the relationship turns sour, one of the spouses can stalk the other.

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Originally Posted by kyuven

which is the issue he's pointing out. if the relationship turns sour, one of the spouses can stalk the other.

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Finally someone gets it. More than half these posts are about my own situation which I could care less about since, as I pointed out, I married a friend. My issue is the fact that the system can easily be abused due to the fact that Person A can still utilize the full benefits of the marriage despite Person B having a divorce. Being able to have someone you dont like teleport to you INSTANTLY every 30 mins vs someone having to search an entire map for you is completely different.
I get it, I reap what I sow... which isn't much of anything since it was a FRIEND and it was for shits and giggles, as well as gil. This is addressed to individuals with actual relationships that can go downwind.

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Originally Posted by Saigwa

Finally someone gets it. More than half these posts are about my own situation which I could care less about since, as I pointed out, I married a friend. My issue is the fact that the system can easily be abused due to the fact that Person A can still utilize the full benefits of the marriage despite Person B having a divorce. Being able to have someone you dont like teleport to you INSTANTLY every 30 mins vs someone having to search an entire map for you is completely different.
I get it, I reap what I sow... which isn't much of anything since it was a FRIEND and it was for shits and giggles, as well as gil. This is addressed to individuals with actual relationships that can go downwind.

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Because you edited your post when everyone posted already.

Also you say you don't care if you get stalked by a friend but then again you care?

You make no sense, you say that is can be abused when and where and who?

If you say your friend then you don't mind which isn't a issue and It sounds like you are making a issue out of a drop of milk, its not like everyone is gonna do what your friend did and refuse to drop a ring.

Are you simply trying to ruin the teleporting option for others by trying to make it a issue?

Creepers gunna creep.