Kind of curious about this myself.
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I have a question, we started our eternal bonding as standard but decided to go platinum instead so i bought the 2 platinum plans. however the game wont let us use the platinum wristlet or even give us the other stuff that goes with it. we tried discarding the standard one but will not allow us. any help/insight pls? thank you.
Speak to the Sanctum Acolyte in East Shroud, with the other wedding NPCs. The bottom option lets you cancel your wedding, which requires you turn in the wristlets you started the quest with. You may then equip your platinum wristlets and start the quest with a platinum plan.
The minion is only for guests. The bride & groom (or bride/bride or groom/groom) do not receive the minion - they will have to attend a wedding as a guest to receive one.