Firstly, congratulations on getting your life to the point again of being able to partake in online games.
Although I'm sorry for your loss, I feel that the system is working as intended and was for the betterment of your FC that leadership passed.
There seems to be a bit too much drama though. I'm sure you may feel that you lost 8 months of your life, but you were only gone from the game for about 3 months. Seeing that you earned achievements on 4/28/14 and nothing until 8/2/14
There's also a highly likely chance that the regular members of the FC left on their own before leadership was passed, if it seemed to them that the FC's ability to grow wasn't there anymore without a leader. I strongly recommend trying to find your old FC members and talking to them about your circumstances, and if possible starting something else up. But be prepared for them to be skeptical of following your leadership, as you've already taken 2 absences from the game and lost 2 FCs over it.
It might not be the advice you want, but your situation might be best suited to just being a normal member in someone else's FC
