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And then there's also the fact that sometimes a party has no chance of success whatsoever. I've had parties in AK, for example, where the DD had below Lv30 pieces of gear (You dont need i90, but at least AF or over Lv40 gear) and were just clueless about how to play. I was patient, explained how to do Demonwall, and attempt after attempt after attempt, they'd get knocked off the edges or not put out enough DPS, until the timer for the dungeon finally ran out. That's a lot of time to put in for nothing but wipe after wipe and trying to teach a party that just doesn't get it, and even if they did just don't have the gear and competence to pull through. You can't expect everyone to be willing to do that and tolerate that though.
Again, just not what I'm talking about. These were all attempts where quits were at the first wipe. One exception where we had maybe three wipes and we waited for a replacement tank who quit after one wipe, neither tank spoke or contributed to the actual completion of the dungeon over that time.
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But if you find that all of your parties/tanks are abandoning you, I think instead of ranting and pointing fingers at everyone else, perhaps you should take a look at yourself.
Yeah I guess I must be the problem. Certainly it can't be that jerks play MMOs, that's unthinkable. Look I appreciate you trying to play devils advocate but all you did was shift the narrative to things I'm not even talking about and then politely tell me I must be bad. All that does is back up my claims about people having troubles communicating in this game. Maybe that you're so comfortable conflating one wipe with multiple wipes is the problem, everyone has reached some kind of critical level of hyperbole where one wipe might be a million and where a minute of explanation might as well be fifteen.