I was healing Ifrit Extreme in DF. Which everyone surprisingly knew the fight except for the other healer which said, "I'm new." I tell her about how she needs to stay away from the PT when she has the debuff, but she kept running head on into the melee to cast aoe heals. To which everyone kept dying.
I asked multiple times that if they could get on team speak so I could let them know when they could go in to "assist heal" but they would not saying they didn't want to ruin the experience.
It got to the point that I let her stay dead, and I solo healed the EX in DF.
She told me I was a jerk for this because she was "new" and I didn't give her the chance to learn. Yet I did - I offered, marked, and told her about the safe zones.
I honestly don't regret it - honestly she should be happy with a free-win. >.>
