Excellent question. I went to farm A2 last night, and completely forgot to remove the "in-progress", so of course.. I happened to join in progress. Players were arguing over 3 minutes, and trying to cheer the other white mage up, whom had been, according to the chats, been "abused" by the previous healer. (something they said was along the lines of "how did he dare to try to give tips when he had only single job - whm - himself ?")
I thought I'd see soon enough. It didn't take long unfortunately, to see why the previous healer had been votekicked/ had ragequit.
My cohealer started immediatly with Med 2 / regen on half the party. And kept doing that for the entire fight, aggroing a LOT of mobs everytime they'd pop, making everyone else's job quite tough. We managed it through. At the end of the fight, ALL players in the party (maybe an FC ?) congratulated the other Whm, saying how great her healing had been.
2 lessons I learnt then :
People can't take an advice without feeling offended. And they prefer to lie about someone else's performance rather than explain things and possiblly create an argument.
