It's more of a testament to just how forgettable he is as a character.
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If you could understand the life that G'raha had led up until the passing of Elidibus- when things had finally calmed down- then you might be able to show only a little empathy for the man. He's been through a lot, has seen a lot, had suffered quite astutely, and bore himself through it using the WoL as a role model/aspiration. While Endwalker G'raha can easily be seen as cutesy, or even fan-service in behavior, it still fits the man's character, as he no longer bears a terrible burden he had once carried for the better part of his life and only wishes to live out his dreams of becoming an adventurer standing beside a figure he could only read about in essence in fiction. Well, his personal yearning, anyway. I'm sure he's still one of the first that would jump in to save the world if necessary.
I despised G'raha before he left for the Crystal Tower, and was moderately impressed with his candor come the Crystal Exarch. Only after he showed signs of having his own personality inside of that persona did I start caring some about him; and while the ear animations and hand-wringing are somewhat too plenty in cutscenes post-Elidibus's fall, I rather enjoy that he's of the mind or heart to express himself after spending a lifetime bottled up and locked up.
As for the reversion of personalities back and forth to suit the writing: I both see it and understand how "stocky" or "jarring" it can get. I'll admit that I felt the plot too convenient (and rolled my eyes) when G'raha used Levitate or whatever after the Tower of Zot. G'raha isn't my favorite XIV character, but, to me, he's nowhere near one of the unbearables.
Edit: sorry, I didn't mean to sound as if I were judging you or saying you felt he was subpar/etc. I realize the first part of my response sort of insinuates so. Apologies.
To be fair to G'raha, if I spent about a century slowly turning into a stone only to one day return to my 21(?) year old self, I'd be ecstatic too. Plus, I like that little existential crisis of his about being unsure/scared whether he's the Exarch possessing his younger body, or the younger self who absorbed the Exarch's memories.
Lyse and the twins should've died in endwalker
So far? Kan-e-senna.
I'm still trying to keep an open mind regarding the writing overall and character writing specifically but I feel gross just being stuck on the same star as this useless creature.
y'shtola, thancred and g'raha
sick of them hogging all the screentime. that's all.
Yoshi P is the most hated character right now it seems looking around the forums.