Originally Posted by
Terhix
There exists no future in which raiding scene in XIV does not use dps meters, having one built-in into the game would only bring information parity to all players. Again, I strongly recommend watching that Dan Olson's talk (which given the timeline of responses you haven't). Requiring that other people use food, pots, and perform somewhat competently at their job is itself not toxic, but refusing to adhere to those social norms and still expecting to do high end content is. There is a level of pettiness at which this becomes unhealthy (which Olson also covers), to say nothing of language that players can sometimes employ, but it's much easier for a company to control and police the language people use in game, than it is to control or police social norms they develop.