Though I agree with OP's opinion on PVP and gear in general, FFXIV's community seem to be very grind-oriented. I've seen more people in this game who actually want to "work to get something", as opposed to "just playing to have fun", than anywhere else before.
This game is totally gear-based, and progression-oriented. What OP suggest goes against the general design of the game (and judging by he reactions on this thread, I am comforted in the idea that it goes against what a good deal of the comunity wants).
From the start, seeing how gear-base this MMO was, I knew not to expect much from PvP. I haven't tried it yet, I will (to at least see how it goes). But if I really feel in the mood for PvP, I'll probably just launch GW2 instead. For precisely the reason mentionned by OP.
