So you see, the reason why it would appear that "veteran" players never help/don't want to help "casual" players, is that no matter what I, my linkshell, or anybody else, does to help them, its never enough for them. They want everything NOW NOW
NOW NOW NOW!!! and even if you give it to them, they just want MORE! And if they don't get it, poof! So with this ungrateful attitude, is it really any surprise that most people don't want to bother with them?
As for the rest of your post, I know that I personally have never forgotten about the people that have helped me get to where I am at today (infact, I named my mules after a few of them lol

), nor have I forgotten about any of the people that
I helped to get them to where
THEY are today (something that today's solo-centric casual player has most likely never even done) So in closing I'd just like to say, that help
IS out there for these people, they just don't want it. They'd rather just sit around and do nothing. Though, with stuff like the never-ending login campaigns, pre-made parties on demand, and the already super-boosted XP rate (not even counting Records of Eminence) can you really blame them?