Quote Originally Posted by Wolfenhausen View Post
I've run into people who are petrified at joining DF groups for new dungeons because there are so many people who literally would rather throw abuses, leave, and wait 30 minutes for a group to start again than to explain a fight in two minutes.
For every jerk there is always a nice person, the other thing people jump to, too quickly, is to call out someone who is trying to help out as being a jerk (which I have had happen to me and I tend to respond in kind). But what I will say about those actually being a jerk is, so what? If they get mad and leave, they will be replaced, normally pretty quickly. The only exception to that is the HM Primals, because noone queues for those in-progress. If you are going to let some random person who you will likely never meet again affect your gameplay then you need to get a little thicker skin. Are they jerks? Probably. Should they be so mean? Probably not. But should you let it affect you? Hell no! The true jerks, that are doing it for kicks, relish in the fact that it upsets you. So not queuing, or getting upset by it, is what they WANT you to do... so don't let them win.