I had my 1st bad healer.
I've been doing a few Duty finders with a static. War(my wife) Brd(myself) and a BLM friend from FFXI. Well Warrior had BLM don't have the best of luck together. Overpower is high hate but does dmg, and Slept mobs wake up when pulling hate again.
Well we had a WHM that after a few pulls started pulling hate but didn't die. Bitched out my wife as being a bad tank. And stopped healing and refused to leave wanted one of us to leave, because they didn't want the penalty for leaving.