I am also fed up with the majority of the community being so hateful to tanks and healers. As a healer myself, I admit that I don't know everything and when I go to a new instance I tell people I am a first timer, I normally need 1-2 runs to get the boss mechanics down. I was called a moron stupid and any other nasty words I can think of all because I kept being raised during hell fire and instantly died again. I have no control over any of that lol. I told the party I would leave if they wanted because honestly, I don't have time for stupid kids insulting me.