Fed up already

[Hanmerreborn]

Why not make a static group and take on dungeons?

The duty finder is a tool to aid finding dungeon parties, not the only way of doing them. Get your friends and do dungeons together.

FATE parties are an easy way of getting exp but I only took advantage of this when levelling my second class to 50. Hunters log has great exp and quests are found in abundance throughout all instances.

A complete off topic aside: I wish I was on your server so I could be your tank buddy.

Superman and supergirl lala tank squad.

[amnie]

thankfully nobody is forcing you to do fates. I'll tell you what... just because you see so many shouts for fate parties and fates disappear in a matter of seconds because everyone wants to do them does not mean you HAVE to do them. unlike popular believe, you CAN level pretty fast (if that is your goal) by doing chain grinding, too. just as repetative as fates but you can jump back and forth between both, I guess.

about the guildHESTs..
I haven't tried the lvl 40 ones yet, but I do notice an increase in difficulty up to lvl 35, so my guess would be that the hests are a means to slowly but steadily get people 'into it'. same as the dungeons only slowly become more difficult (some say haukke manor is the first difficult one, I personally found the first difficult one to be toto rak, and that's not even one you .have. to do for your main story so not everyone does it)

[Bruiser_Cruiser]

Have u done all the guildhests up to your level? Those are pretty fun and give tons of xp first time you clear them. I do agree with you that farming fates can be kinda boring. Def join a party if u are gonna fate grind for a bit. Also yea, Duty Finder kinda sucks post Brayflox Longstop as it seems to me that the dungeons get a pretty significant bump in difficulty from then on. I joined a great FC on my server and have been loving the availability of players on my server that i know can handle the dungeons im running. They are basically helping me get to 50 quick so i can heal for them
Guess what im saying is there are a few others things u can try besides fate grinding before you give up on the game, but if thats just how u feel then no one can change ur mind. If its not the game for you then it just isn't and im sure u can find something out there that suits u better.

EDIT: Also dont neglect your hunters log. That thing is beast for xp.

[Mishakai]

How are you winding up dead in FATEs? Are you doing them solo as a tank and just expecting randome people to be able to click on you and drop a heal amid all that craziness? Are you even bothering to get into a FATE group? EVERY zone on my server has multiple groups going on for FATEs, it helps XP and generally, you'll get healed.

How the heck are you stuck grinding for two levels? Do you have a 50 and have done ALL of the side quests? Have you cleared your hunting log?

Sounds to me like your complaining just to complain.

[xwmstormx]

Gathering could use a boost since they nerfed nodes from 6 to 4. But, your issues are purely player based.

Fate spams: Don't have to spam them and group up with others when you do, better xp!

Dungeon Queues: Buddy up with a WHM or a Tank for faster queue times!

Players not following strategies: Player's fault, not the game.. Not like that hest was important anyways.

Fate (not getting cures): Get into a fate party.

Sorry that you take back a lot of what you said during beta as I see most of the issues you have are with what players are doing and not the game is doing. People will behave how they want and this will continue, if you have an issue with how the players are handling the content then I'm afraid you may not last too long in any MMO. Hope it gets better for you and happy adventuring!

[Ryios]

Gathering jobs have no boosts?

-Rested exp works.
-And you can buy scrolls form the GC Vendor for 2000 seals that boosts gathering exp by 50% for 3 hours up to 40,000. You can buy them for crafting too. And if you think 2000 is a lot... At level 50 with fates you drown in seals.

Not getting credit on Fates?
-> Join a fate train pt, all the aoe kills people in your group get net you exp as if you were in an EXP Party and if they get a gathering drop from a fate objective you get one too and can turn it in.

Dungeon Ques?

-> This happens in any game with this system, even wow.... It's not meant to be instant and it's not the games fault it's not. It's people and what roles they decide to be creating that inbalance. The Que System is a luxury, something that's nice to have when you need it, not something you should rely on. Make a linkshell, join a linkshell, shoot join 10 linkshells, join an FC, and run with people you know...

Exp fill in gaps
-> It's not something people see apparently, but you can join a part with 3 to 7 people in the same level gap as you so say 36-41 and go kill stuff thats level 45 and get more EXP than fates. Also umm, 3 levels at 38, go to coerthas highlands, do Svara and the fates there you'll be 40+ in an hour. Then go to Northern Thanalan for DD and the Fates there (join a party) and you'll be 50 in a day.

[Ryios]

Yeah if you are dieing in fates, you must not be in a group. It's nearly impossible to fate effciently if you are not in a group. Fate Trains are the new EXP party of FFXIV 2.0. This game requires you to group as much as FFXI does really. Sure you can go solo, but it sucks, don't expect it not to.

[LadyZola]

If you are fed up already just leave this game.

I seriously don't understand why so many people who don't like this game have to make a threat to cry about how awful this game is.

Easy solution: don't play the game and look for something you actually enjoy.

[Ispen]

You are so informed in what direction WOW lies, do you have a beaten path to its front door?

I have a map which legend says leads to Blizzard's main office only problem is you have to walk through Mordor pass through the Ring of Fire and win a staring contest against each eye on a Beholder. Needless to say the effort is not really worth the reward but some people say it's the journey not the goal that counts!! and what were we talking about again?.

Sorry the above is just a random thought i had while reading your post :P