About the boss-strategies: I don't enjoy tanking in this game because most bosses are just tank & spank for the main tank and the off-tank's only job is to interrupt casts... How is that an enjoyable gameplay? I've been a tank in World of Warcraft for over 6 years now and I expected FF14 to be even better in terms of gameplay but it's just not. I'm seriously considering canceling my subscription. Who in hell thought it would be cool to have 1 person interrupt a boss constantly during 10 minutes? Only a retard could come up with something like that! Herp, derp! Stun! Stun! Stun! ....
If that's what you worked on for 3 years, then I feel sorry for you.