If you happen to expect a free transfer or a free month after a transfer to keep playing you might as well quit now. They already gave out a week of free time for the log-in problems and that is IMO enough for them to give out. It sucks people are stuck on other servers than their friends (and I am one of those people) but MMO's are pretty rocky at the start... If this is such a big deal for you my suggestion would be to wait a month or so after an MMO comes out to jump in.