Occasionally I am in a DF party (or even a ls party) and someone is playing a job they are not so used to. I would like to send them a /tell advising to do something different (like for example remind WHM to turn cleric stance off when heals are needed or ask SCH to put the pixie next to the tank when himself have to stay away etc.) and when I say this in the party chat, people often take it that I am slacking off their skills, when in fact I am just trying to help...
The /tells definately need to be brought to the Duties, I will not have 20 linkshells just so I can talk with my friends privately.