The High Grade of Immaturity is Astonishing

[Vorador30]

I know there are a lot of Threads like this already, but i wanted to start my own.
First of all, i'm 32 yrs old and English is not my primary Language, so please bear with me(the Language thing, not the Age ).

Oh, and please dont tell me "Welcome to the World of MMOs"
I've played a lot of MMORPGs and i mean a lot, but i've never seen things distinct like this before...

I really am a nice Guy and i'm going to help/explain people Stuff they dont know if they mess up or whatnot. I really dont see/understand why some people HAVE to harass or use foul Language, to hurt other Players. You Guys started from scratch aswell someday! There is no one, that got they're Knowledge and Equip from SE right from the start!

I know a lot of Player find it daunting and wont use the DF anymore because of THIS! And right at this point, there are some people thinking: "then dont use DF and go with your FC/LS", but that's what the Duty Finder is for.

Part 2 following up. Too much Text

[Vorador30]

Why don't use it? SE gave it to us just for that reason. I got over it now, because i'm old enough to know what to do/say and what not. It's just not right... Some may not care, but i wanted to share it with everyone! It's simply sad...

Same thing is when somebody dies during a Dungeon/Primal Fight or is aggroing Mobs. The first thing i see is either ".......", "DONT AGGRO SHIT NOOB!", "WTF" or Player A insults Player B and leaves the Dungeon/Primal Fight. Why? Nobody dies in RL if it takes 5-10 minutes longer. Wasting time you say? Well there's so much Stuff in life, that is "wasting time" Some take it WAY to seriously. It's till just a freaking Game. Nothing more and nothing less.

If you want to punch something, go buy yourself a Sandbag and don't let it out on other People.

Part 3 coming...

[Vorador30]

Oh and please dont try to lecture me... I'm through with it. Game is fun, i keep playing and i don't let it reach me. Maybe when subs kick in, most of the Trollolols are gone. Keep your Hopes up!

Over and out

[Vorador30]

I'm not lecturing other Players how to behave online. That should be common sense and its just my point of view beacuse i dont get it why some people are like that.

[Asiaine]

I was in DF the other day... me (SCH), LNC, MNK and a Tank... we were having fun then reached the first boss, and we died. We try again and we die. By now tank is unhappy and barking orders and calling names and using profanity (why doesn't my profanity filter work? >.<). We go in and die again. Then we try one more time, but this time:

Tank goes in, we follow, get locked into fight, tank quits, leaving us to die.

(That is rather immature and pathetic behavior that would not occur if we lived on the same server, but he can easily do because he is essentially anonymous to us)

Ironically, we managed to get the boss down even further without him, then with him O.o!

For me, the problem is not the duty finder, the problem is not the lack of experience or good gear.. the real big problem is getting matched with people who behave so impolitely (and attempt to MPK us o.o).

These can be alleviated in the future I hope (I had suggestions on feature-adds to DF to make it better). But I do not know how we can really solve the underlying problem:

Why are people being immature, mean, shouty, insulting, and offensive in a video game with no material rewards that exists for pure personal enjoyment?

[GinTama]

I'm not lecturing other Players how to behave online. That should be common sense and its just my point of view beacuse i dont get it why some people are like that.

How many releases of MMO have you experienced? My thoughts are, every time a new MMO starts you have 50% WoW players that want to try a new MMO and there are a lot of immature brats that come from there. Not saying everyone is like that but "a lot".
Then there are those "hardcore" guys that get to max as soon as possible and try to beat all the content before their free trial runs out, so when its not running perfectly they immediately start to rage.

Usually both problems disappear after trial run so look forward to october.

Edit: another thing that comes to mind,"current generation" kids these days seem to get more and more cocky.

[Vorador30]

I was in DF the other day... me (SCH), LNC, MNK and a Tank... we were having fun then reached the first boss, and we died. We try again and we die. By now tank is unhappy and barking orders and calling names and using profanity (why doesn't my profanity filter work? >.<). We go in and die again. Then we try one more time, but this time:

Tank goes in, we follow, get locked into fight, tank quits, leaving us to die.

(That is rather immature and pathetic behavior that would not occur if we lived on the same server, but he can easily do because he is essentially anonymous to us)

Ironically, we managed to get the boss down even further without him, then with him O.o!

For me, the problem is not the duty finder, the problem is not the lack of experience or good gear.. the real big problem is getting matched with people who behave so impolitely (and attempt to MPK us o.o).

I can feel ya. Stuff like that happened often enough to me aswell.

[Vorador30]

How many releases of MMO have you experienced? My thoughts are, every time a new MMO starts you have 50% WoW players that want to try a new MMO and there are a lot of immature brats that come from there. Not saying everyone is like that but "a lot".
Then there are those "hardcore" guys that get to may as soon as possible and try to beat all the content before their free trial runs out, so when its not running perfectly they immediately start to rage.

Usually both problems disappear after trial run so look forward to october.

I never played WoW so i cannot say, but i hope it will.
To name a few: UO, Lineage 2, Aion, Tera, 2 Moons, FFXI, GW2, Vindictus, Age of Conan etc., but it wasnt nowhere near as bad in any of those Games like its in FFXIV.

[Altheras]

The world(our MMO) would be a better place if everyone just got along and shared their shinies... and knowledge! Nothing is a bigger relief to a player new to a dungeon than an experienced player who is willing to give them outlines. =3

I go out of my way to talk to people and make friends whenever I can. The way I see it, it's always better for everyone to make friends instead of making enemies.

It would be nice if people would think before they speak. Just think, "How would I feel if someone said this to me?" If the answer is "Not too good" then don't say it.

I blame bad parenting for the people who are like that ALL THE TIME, and bad days for the people who just every once in a while explode on someone.

Life is a giant cookie, share it!

[Vod]

If you get yelled at a lot, try and find out what youre doing wrong, and fix it. If you are not preforming poorly, or doing something wrong, then ignore them.