Put all the lag prevent stuff to mob 1st and then your character, then goes to party then to rest of people. Next people like to have fun With the open world events. Square man up and they will help you out . Since it help the entire mmo market. ,but your closed off going hurt you, and it sucks since you got a fun game. With internet basic stuff that broken. It not 1999. Fates fun. and understand that some people do not understand this concept from ffxi. or any other japanese game.