I like the message, it allows me to know if we need to explain anything. Or even lets them know I need some explaining.. cuz when I try reading from a forums or wiki about a dungeon, i'm lost by the time I load up in dungeon. I just listen for the key points, get in there and try( and then my brain stores it). my first run in AK I felt terrible for what I made my group endure during Demon Wall.. I died so many times by the time we reached final boss my WHM gear was all busted and I didnt have any replacements and could only get like 500hp cure IIs off. But thanks to their not raging out on me and trying to teach me the ways, them bosses are easy now. If everyone could be as nice and forgiving, we would have a lot more experienced players and no need for the elitist shouts we see.