It's more than fine the way it is.
I love this game because content is actually challenging. Don't stand where you're not supposed to, and you won't die.
If you mess up, you die, simple. I'm surprised they even gave us combat ress.
If you get raised during combat, watch where you will spawn and don't raise during a bad time.
You picked FFXIV and expect everything to be handed to you like in WoW then you picked poorly imo.