Saying that gear drops causes players to not be social is incredibly incorrect. FFXI was all about gear drops and people were more social in that game than 14 has ever been. Also, gear has always played a big role in almost every RPG. Demon's Souls? If you don't have the right gear, you'll die (faster). FF games? If you don't have the right elemental resistances, you'll get 1 shotted. Man even in FPS, if you don't have the right grenade at the right time or the right gun at the right time, you'll get owned hardcore. For gear to be essentially useless is more unrealistic than having a knight in full plate able to jump 10ft in the air.