Am I overdoing it to ask for a linkshell that's not to strict on endgame?

It's hard to find a group of people to do AK (it would be my first run, for my GC weap and my relic) or any dungeon for the sake of tomestones because I'd really love to participate in endgame. So I'm a little lost. And it's hard to put my foot in the door because so much players want others to be already geared to do speedruns and such.

Thank you for your time.