This is why quest markers make the game for 2 year olds

[BrusselSprout]

Where are you getting this from? Where do I think everyone else's opinion but mine is "stupid"?

That's the general tone you convey in almost every post you make. You probably don't even realize you do it, but that's where the hostility towards you comes from. You seem pretty passionate about the game, and it's cool to express that. You just need to learn how to do it in a less condescending way.