while I can sympathize with the OP its just the way things are its a game and we can't tell others how to play it (even if we are correct and just trying to help them be better prepared) it can come off as pushy. TBH I have seen ppl in low level gear with their relic weapons +1 already and thought "WOW carried much!!".

fact is everything up to HM titan (and even HM titan) can be beaten with lower level gear if the rest of the pt are well geared and know the fight. So many of these ppl are looking for an easy carry while some are just clueless to what they need and others are honestly just trying to progress thinking they are ready to do so.

this is an issue for SE not the community.