We were doing stone vigil last night, we had a bad rash of whms that would join us. Me and a couple friends, WAR, BLM, SMN, were trying to get this mission done. Our main issues seemed to be just getting healed, not necessarily missing any AoEs. Anyhow we got one whm last night, that seemed to idk freak out or something during boss fights, and it would take them way to long to cure me. We got the final boss fight, and there were times id be almost dead, and you would see him either not curing at all(possibly paralyze im sure) or he would be curing himself to full BEFORE curing me. So we were trying to help him understand look man, you gotta focus on curing better, we were pretty nice about it, but you know most people don't seem to have the capacity to take advise/criticism without /emo. So the guy says gl, thats it, and drops out of the dungeon.

We had 25 mins left to do the boss. It finally dropped him at 15 mins left, and we waited until 10 mins left to restart. Our SMN switched to SCH and chose to main heal for her first time ever, and omg I never had such a smooth ride, especially with a Amateur healer... We beat all the miniboss's and mega boss first try. Anyways i guess the only part of that relevant to the thread is even when someone properly leaves the dungeon it for some reason takes forever to drop them out.