Last night playing on a pug against garuda, I told them I was new but I had watched the videos several times. They agreed to do it, we didn't finish the duty but they stayed during the whole time. Nobody raged and nobody was rude to anyone. I'm going to get 3 pieces of darklight armor then try again.

I have had only one bad experience with the duty finder and I let him know he was a scumbag. I threatened to afk inside the dungeon if he didn't shutup and it worked.