from what i'm seeing the community in this game isn't very accepting of mistakes either. make a mistake or don't do something as fast as someone thinks you should have, even if you're new to the content, and ppl start spewing all kinds of hateful shit at you. nobody is perfect, at least give ppl chances to learn from their mistakes. and sadly i don't think it's just the crowd from other mmos, alot of the ffxi community was pretty elitist too.