I just had another run and it was my worst yet. The whm was constantly running ahead and getting agro even after I repeatively asked them to stay back. Then someone used the limit break and they typed out a long "how dare you we need that for the boss" speach, at which point I died because we were still mid battle, and I needed heals. I debated dropping the party right then and there, but didn't. Then no one touched the grates after I repeatively asked them, there were 15 adds, i was running around like crazy trying to get them. It was a less than great time.

There doesn't need to be a boss, if everyone knows how to do their job. However, as the tank, I am the leader. If you go in front of me time after time, I'm not going to keep saving your ass when you keep pulling agro. I don't care if you've done it a million times, you don't pass the tank.