Quote Originally Posted by truemagus View Post
yeah i get that,but they keep distance at all the wrong times,they are either stacking on me or the pillars causing us to get hit by aoe damage for first 20% of boss,or all the way across the field away from rest of party just standing behind a pillar,a pillar that has no adds on it,and dying to unavoidable damage. it just gets annoying
Tell them to stop doing that. If that doesn't work, don't heal them. If it still doesn't work out, quit and find a new queue. You can still even be civil before leaving. Just gauge where your responsibility ends and theirs begins.

Find a good guild to run with and this won't be a problem. Otherwise, it's just how things are. Playing a healer means dealing with people, but in most cases you can't control them any more than you can stop the boss from teleporting to do its special move.