So help me understand this new end game grind better

[Ulathskullsplitter]

The OP does make a valid point mentioning this game is designed around playing multiple jobs but the time it would take to gear multiple jobs is crazy. Im just now reaching the endgame grind and I havent spent any tomes yet because Im not sure which job I want to splay yet.

I started ARR with the intent of being a drg but the wait for DF was too long so I took up CNJ to get in and found out I enjoyed healing. So I played the entire story and dungeons as a cnj/whm. I dabbled with drg a bit and realize I suck at avoiding stuff and have since questioned whether I want to play it. I also have a lvl 50 arc/brd from 1.0 and think I may prefer that as my dps class now instead of drg. So to switch between 2-3 different jobs endgame and be decently geared would take forever and by then there would be more tiers of gear to go for

Decisions decisions. I just cant come to grips with being a full time healer. My surname is Skullsplitter for crying out loud. Maybe Ill go somewhere in the middle and settle on bard.

Tldr; the tome grind is about right for gearing one job but the game is designed to play multiple and gearing 2-3 jobs would take forever and by then there would be new tiers of gear to obtain.