This is really starting to show itself the more you progress. I gave up tanking at Brayflox because you just cannot do it with the aoe lag. Too frustrating for me and other people in the party. It's like we are playing two different games. I switched to blm, got to the Navel and sure enough the aoe lag makes the fight nothing but frustrating.

I run well away from the aoe box a the agro/attack line follows me and dings me with the aoe as if I'm standing in the box. No amount of futzing with the PS3 GUI options alleviates the problem.