i just take it at face value, you say a kid chokes on lunch or w/e and the parent couldnt watch cause hes playing a game, then thats just plain bad parenting =p where was the mom? single parent then he def shoulda kept a better eye on his kid. or known how to clear airway obstruction. geeze now u guys are all off topic XD

anyhow who cares how people react to people being afk, your not going to change how they respond to it, whether it being a jerk about it or being super nice.