there is nothing wrong with booting people frmo behest for not being at their comp, period
if you dont have time to play, then dont play
but dont expect to be dragged for free exp
and dont go to a 40 camp at rank 10 and expect to not get booted either
more people want behest leaders like me cuz we enforce stuff instead of letting everyone ruin the experience for everyone else by being lazy or making us lose sp aoeing everything
remember, first and foremost people do behest for SP and everyone must pull their weight
also what happens in your personal life has NOTHING to do with the game, people dying? so what, you can easily say "emergency gotta go" and drop group, but to get mad at people for kicking you when your gone for hours, thats pathetic, they had every right to be mad at you for not giving them a simple 5 second message to say you gotta run
thats called leeching, and there is never an excuse for it