exactly, that's how we treat in on my ls. if someone is always active in parties for hours at a time and has to use the restroom we just say "target me til you get back and i'll drag ya along", but if they are leaving for an extended period of time we say "just go to the camp and we'll leave you a spot in the party for when you get back".

the point is we don't mind covering for you for a few minutes, but will not drag you for 30. if you autofollow me without saying anything, i will be the first to admit, i will take you to the toughest aggro mob i can find then log out on you. don't expect me to get you levels. if you need a break to use the restroom just tell me and i will do it gladly, but don't just put me on autofollow and expect me to get your ranks for you.

there was a guy in broken water that was bad about joining behests and setting the next person to join behest on autofollow then follow the whole behest then do it again the next. 3 behests in a row we drug him to the diremites and let him die before making the first kill and left him there.