Sorry for being off topic but I don't think you actually understand the meaning of NEET. NEET is an acronym to describe a person with No Education, Employment or Training. Meaning a person who does not attend school, work and not in the process of learning a trade to be part of specific field of jobs. It has nothing to do with family or needing to use the restroom. How is this term applicable for people who care about how others spend their time playing a game as you are using it?
Yes, some people seem to take the comments about this topic very personally because it would greatly effect the advantages they currently possess when controlling additional characters if policy or mechanics are changed. Gaining skill ups is not an infinite part of the game and once maxed out a character can reap the same rewards as all others who worked to the same point. Sorry but that empty shell of a character doesn't honestly deserve anything in the game for simply existing behind your own. If your wives' characters do not play the game, they don't deserve to be rank 50 and have the same benefits of being a rank 50.