So wait, let me get this straight. The guy that disagrees with you is rude, but you're a sweetheart handing out hugs here? Ok bud.
We will just have to agree to disagree, like it or not, there's an AFK timer, and I doubt it's going to disappear. That's really all there is to it.
PS: They aren't NM's. That's part of your problem right there. It's not XI, they aren't NM's. Stop acting like they are.