I had noticed that after I had posted it, Yeah that is really lame and should be something I can disable, topped with the fact that after the quest the game spawns you in a group of lvl 42 mobs I kind of got a bit frustrated lol, went ahead and posted that bit in the bug report section.

And how did people fail these? their painfully easy, I only failed this one and one other before it way early game, but I went ahead and got cure and I haven't failed one till wilfred decided to be all suicidal