Wholeheartedly agree. I've met some great players (and people) in DF and I would've loved to add them ; ;. One of them even asked "add me to your friends please" and it broke my heart when I knew I would probably never meet those players again...

Please Yoshi-P, think about this, find a way to code this. Adding people from other servers and talking to them cross-server would be so great and would bring a lot to the community.