@ Sebastien

Nice to see a balanced, reasonable post.

You're correct about WoW tanking, also. People like to bash WoW for being too easy while completely ignoring the hard content that does exist.

Fact is, WoWs hardcore raiding scene is still some of the most complex and challenging the genre has to offer, and no other MMO demands as much from its tanks at that level in terms of the number of mechanics they have to deal with and the level of coordination the two tanks often have to maintain.

Getting back to the topic at hand, most issues are easily handled by marking enemies so Dps know the order, or asking the Mage to simply not aoe.

Yes, amazingly enough, its helpful to take a second to communicate with your teammates...

If they refuse to LISTEN, however, they aren't willing to be team players. That's not the fault of any other game, developer or community, and to suggest otherwise absolves then of responsibility.

No, it's on them as individuals.