You know, I have been pretty lucky with this server. Like any other server, or game for that matter, there are good seeds and bad seeds. Try to surround yourself with friendly people and the game itself seems more fun. I have found by trying to find a group outside of Duty Finder is a good way to meet new people. Also, try helping out lowbies who are new to the game. You may have to take the time to help them, but you will be surprised how much fun you can have just by helping.