I agree with the OP. When i finally unlocked AK I did a duty finder, the first few groups i had were nasty, a few even cussed me out for not knowing exactly where to go during speed runs, or not knowing exactly what each boss does and when. I finally got one where when I said I was still really new to the instance no one flipped out. 2 hours later we hadn't killed the first boss (dps couldn't get the adds down) and everyone was still joking around. I want to see end game content as much as anyone else but I want to be able to enjoy the road to get there. It's not like I'm going to be getting world first or anything.